Sam is a planner. He likes to get a plan in place and then not deviate from it at all. (Routine is a big deal to people on the spectrum.) We keep that in mind but we also push him a little on that front because he doesn't live in a bubble. He lives in a community with other people whose thoughts and preferences have to be considered as well. Last night was one such instance.

I had an engagement shoot and all the kids were home. Sam and I had talked earlier in the day about watching Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune, his latest obsessions favorite past time. I had told him it would be fine but what I didn't realize was that a movie marathon of some sort was starting at the same time and the girls wanted to watch it.

During a phone conversation I reminded him that we were working on being considerate of other people and no that just because he let his sisters watch something instead of the game shows did not make him a lifetime loser. (Please note that whenever he mention the phrase lifetime loser he does indeed hold his fingers into the shape of an "L" on his forehead.) I tried to talk him through understanding that his shows could be watched another time and they came on every day but the movies didn't. He was pretty convinced I had been brainwashed by his sisters.

"But, Mooooom! We were agreed on this. You are spoiling them!"

Without missing a beat,

"Wait, is this some kind of feminist march?"

I think he is feeling slightly out numbered with his father out of town.

Poor kid.




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