The oldest is about to turn twenty-one and the youngest is forever reminding me that she will soon be my last child to hit double digits for the first time. (We don't do huge birthday celebrations every year but going double digits is a milestone we usually mark with some extra hoopla. Is anyone surprised that Claire is working her status as the baby and the "last one" to get a little extra something something for her celebration in November?)
What I am really coming to terms with is that my babies are babies no more. This year in particular seems to have been a tipping point when that reality is just so sharp. Because of the eleven years that stretch between the first and the last it's not like we're on the home stretch of parenting obviously. But we do seem to have moved into the late summer and early autumn season of child rearing. There's weeding and pruning still to do as there always will be but it's different than before when they were little.
It's an interesting season of life. Having them home for the summer is putting their various stages of maturity into relief and it's so easy to see how they've grown and matured. Oh, they still have moments where they are the best of friends or the worst of enemies but it's just different somehow. They are growing up. They have grown up.
And oddly enough I feel like I have too. I was talking with a friend recently and we were sharing how humbling it is to be a parent of older children. When they're little you have it all figured out...you're the grown up and they are learning from you. At some point though they should be entering the battle with you, along side of you, fighting the same fight that you are as brothers and sisters in Christ. They begin more and more to join you in the labor rather than being so much a part of the labor.
Honestly, I didn't mean to get all philosophical and meandering. I really just wanted to share one of Sam's drawings with you and it just got me to thinking how much they've changed and that's how we ended up on the stroll down that rabbit trail.
Anyway, this tickled me and I thought y'all might enjoy it as well.
The boy has insight, wouldn't you say?