It's that time of year. Leaves are beginning to change colors and fall from their trees. Sweaters and fuzzy socks are closer to becoming the reality than sunscreen and swimsuits. The cooler weather brings about what I call the great Autumn debate and it isn't whether you want a tall or venti pumpkin spice latte. In a few weeks there will be laughing and squealing children in all manner of attire running up and down the street knocking on doors and asking for candy.

That means it is also time for finger pointing and lines being drawn in the sand, pronouncements of self-righteousness and mission mindedness or heaps of condemnation thrown in for good measure.

Trick or treating.

Halloween.

Do we or don't we?

A mockery of a defeated foe or a night belonging to the devil?

We've been on every side of the issue. We've just done it because that's what we've always done. We've turned the lights out and pretended to not be home. We've only passed out candy. We've let the kids dress up but not as anything scary and headed to the local church "Hallelujah" night. We've dressed up and gone around our neighborhood like a Charles Dickens' beggar.

Have I forgotten any position on the subject? We covered them all I think. And you know what I also think?

Who cares?

Now, I know there are people who say it is a big deal and that it should matter. That this is hill worth taking a stand on; one that possibly alienates people and breaks friendships over at worst or at the very least sets up some serious boundaries and restrictions on those relationships. I know others that say get over it already. It's no big deal and harmless; let the kids have some fun and eat candy for crying out loud.

Want to know what else I think about all of this? If you're still reading I am going to assume so and tell ya.

"So, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God."

Say what?

If you do indeed feel that it is not right to participate in such festivities then please, by all means abstain. But know that there is a right way and a wrong way to abstain. Imagining that you are somehow more spiritual or holy because you disdain such nonsense certainly gives no glory to God. He is honored by your obedience that is faithful and humble.

If, however, you feel that there is nothing wrong with costumed panhandling for sweet confections then by all means knock on those neighborhood doors. But know that there is a right way and a wrong way to take part. Do not assume that you are somehow living a more enlightened missional calling because you're dressed up like Glenda the Good Witch passing out Snicker bars. God is honored when you enjoy the simple and good things with thankfulness as coming from His hand.

In the above mentioned passage the Apostle Paul exhorts his readers to not seek their own good but that of their neighbor. I'm convinced that whether you abstain or take part you can be a blessing to those around you if you are choosing to abstain or take part for His glory and not your own.

As for our family?

We've chosen to see this time as an opportunity to practice some neighborhood hospitality. We invite any of
our church members to come and eat hots dogs and macaroni  & cheese with our family. Their children are welcome to dress up and meander up and down the street with our own, knocking on doors and getting candy.  While that's happening I'm standing at a table at the end of my driveway passing out cups of hot cocoa and chocolate dipped jumbo marshmallows and chatting it up with people that normally I just wave to in passing. It's what we have discovered through the years that works for us and we believe is a small way that we can display God's great hospitality and generosity to us.


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  1. Marty,
    I love to take my kids trick-or-treating in our neighborhood with a slew of other kids. Why? Because it is the ONE time of year we see some of our neighbors and get to talk with them. When we go out, I make sure to make it more than just a "thanks for the candy" kind of thing. I try to learn names and connect. For us, it helps build a sense of community. Thanks for the post!

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    1. Amy, that is exactly one of the reasons we started to be more involved in the happenings on this night in our own neighborhood. It's the one night where just about everyone is happy and willing to chat.

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  2. This is outstanding. Thanks SO much for sharing your view, Marty! :) I appreciate your insights.

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    1. You're welcome, Summer! Thank you for taking the time to read them :-)

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